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Do you suspect that your boyfriend might be attracted to other men? This happens more than you might expect. In this article, we will direct you to the telltale signs that your boyfriend could have feelings for males.
One sign that your husband could be gay is if you have caught him looking at other men in public places such as the beach, around town, and more. If this has occurred on multiple occasions, you may have good reason to question his sexuality. Another sign that your partner could be gay is if he has displayed homophobic attitudes. A considerable number of men have expressed homophobic opinions before coming out further down the line. Many women have discovered that their husband or boyfriend is gay after coming across information about their online activities. They may have looked at gay porn, searched for certain terms, and so on.
Some women suspect that their partner is gay because they haven’t been interested in sex recently. If a man hasn’t been very enthusiastic about sex, this alone doesn’t mean he is gay, but you may have cause for concern if this has happened whilst other signs have been in evidence. He may also have been having passionless sex with you, without engaging in much or any foreplay. Perhaps he has accused you of having a huge sexual appetite even when you appear to have a normal one. He may have started to visit gay bars, telling you he is only there for social reasons, or have started talking about homosexuality more than normal. Maybe he doesn’t seem to be checking out other ladies as much as he used to or is looking at fellow males in a certain way.
Unless you have hard evidence, the only way you will find out your husband is gay is if you ask him. Of course, this is not an easy question to ask. He may be hugely offended that you have asked this and may seem incredibly defensive. If he does have feelings for men, the chances are that he will open up to you once you have added the topic to the agenda. It may take a while for his admission to come, but he will likely come out to you eventually if your suspicions are correct.
Some women realize the clues have been there from the start once they found that their husbands and boyfriends are gay. They may remember times when they avoided sex, even early into the relationship, and they may have spent a great deal of time away from home, failing to confirm their whereabouts. They also may have a substantial period around their male friends and may have even started an online gay dating profile.
If your husband seems cold and distant, this doesn’t necessarily mean he is hiding the truth about his sexual orientation. In the modern world, it’s common for people to become so wrapped up in the stresses of modern life that they find it difficult to make time for romance. If the romance and fun do seem to have gone out of your marriage, there are things you can do to try and make it magical again. Flirting isn’t just for singles and couples in the early stages of relationships – it can also keep long-term unions alive and make them satisfying again. Ways that you can flirt with your husband or boyfriend when things seem to have gone stale include paying them compliments, playing romantic or sexy music when they are around, sending them suggestive texts and social media messages, wearing sexy clothes, arranging fun and creative dates, cuddling, whispering messages into his ear, slow dancing with him and kissing him. Men can seem involved in relationships for a myriad of reasons, and the emotional and sexual distance doesn’t always mean they are having an affair or are confused about the sexuality.
There are several steps you can take to win the attention of a guy without actually talking to him. Many women find themselves asking how they can get back the attention of their husbands and boyfriends without begging them to open up. These include making physical contact with him, smiling at him, making eye contact, dressing sexily, acting more confidently, and paying him a compliment via text. Show him that you haven’t lost your sense of fun by arranging something exciting. Sometimes it’s best to play a man at his own game. If you withhold your attention for a certain period of time, chances are they will be desperate to start communicating again.
Many women start to wonder if their husbands or boyfriends are gay simply because they don’t seem interested in them and would rather spend their time with the guys at the bar or at the game. There are many reasons why someone may appear less interested in you than they once were. Maybe the spark has gone out of the relationship, and it simply needs to be revitalized? However, if you spot several signs that suggest they are harboring homosexual feelings, it may be time to have the conversation. If you do suspect that your husband or boyfriend is gay, it’s important not to blame yourself. Your self-esteem may be impacted, and you may feel very hurt, but you must know this is not your fault. Your relationship may even survive if they admit that they are attracted to both men and women, though things may be harder if they have acted on their feelings. Avoid isolating yourself and seek out help if you or any children need it. Even if you feel that you have been lied to, try not to forget about the positive experiences that you have had together. Never think that you are responsible for ‘turning them gay.’ You are not responsible for their sexual orientation.